My mom and my sister and I got pedicures last night. I invited my wife but she thought it would be too complicated. She wasn’t entirely wrong. I am not sure how it would have gone. My mom and my sister accept my wife but they still use male pronouns and I still use male pronouns when I’m with them. An act of cowardice. Should I ask them to switch? Switch myself? When my wife refuses to do so in public? I have no idea. I’m at a loss. I know they care about my wife and want us to be happy and couldn’t care about the trans thing less. But neither my wife or I are brave enough to push it. How can toenail polish be so complex?
